Dating, done
properly.
AskedOut is a members' club for meeting someone real: verified faces, encrypted conversations, and evenings out that actually happen. No bots, no burner accounts, no endless small talk that goes nowhere.
Everything about dating apps that wastes your evening. We removed it.
No infinite swiping, no catfish, no conversations that vanish into the void. AskedOut is built around four non-negotiables.
Verified, always
A live selfie check runs against every profile's photos before it's ever shown to another member. No exceptions.
Private by design
Messages are end-to-end encrypted. We can't read them, and neither can anyone else. Not even us.
Built for real plans
Curated events designed to move things off the screen and into an actual evening.
Quality over quantity
A daily limit on likes, thoughtful filters, and a feed that favours people you'd actually get along with over infinite choice.
A dating app that treats your evening like it matters.
Conversations that stay between the two of you.
Every message is end-to-end encrypted with a unique key pair per match, using the same technology behind Signal. You can even verify your connection's security code in person, the way a security researcher would.
- End-to-end encryption on every message, photo, and voice note
- In-app safety-number verification, no third-party trust required
- On-device warnings before you share personal contact details
If they're on AskedOut, they're really them.
Every member confirms their identity with a live selfie, matched against their photos before their profile ever goes live. Uploaded photos are screened automatically, and our moderation team reviews anything borderline by hand.
- Live selfie match against profile photos
- Automatic + human photo moderation before anything goes public
- One tap to report or block, reviewed by a real person
Curated events, made for meeting in person.
Skip the small talk with a curated evening built for meeting people in person, in venues across Paris chosen for conversation rather than volume.
- Curated singles events across Paris neighbourhoods
- RSVP and see who else is going before you commit
Your safety isn't a feature. It's the foundation.
AskedOut is built to European data-protection standards from day one, not retrofitted after the fact.
Privacy by design
Built GDPR-first: full data export, the right to be forgotten, and granular consent for anything sensitive, sexual orientation and location data included.
Moderation that actually acts
Every report reaches a real moderator. Repeat or serious violations result in suspension, with a clear, written reason and a path to appeal.
Location, protected
Distance is deliberately rounded so no one can pinpoint exactly where you live. You stay discoverable, never exactly locatable.